Gigi Hitam Mengilap Lambang Kecantikan Wanita

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Kiprah warna hitam dalam mayapada kecantikan cukup menonjol dewasa ini, terbukti tren memakai lipstik warna hitam, kuteks (nail polish) yg berwarna hitam menyala, serta juga merajah kulit beserta tato yg berwarna hitam. Hanya tinggal gigi yg belum dihitamkan dalam mayapada fashion. Kita mungkin telah lupa atau tak pernah tahu, bahwa beberapa abad berselang, gigi yg dihitamkan adalah lambang kecantikan serta keningratan. Dan gigi hitam mengilap bukan saja menjadi status sosial, namun terbukti zat penghitam ini mampu melindungi gigi berdasarkan kekeroposan (karies) serta juga menjaga kesehatan tubuh secara awam.

Di masa lampau, khususnya di loka Asia, Melanesia serta Mikronesia, menghitamkan gigi adalah tradisi yg harus dijalani dalam saat memasuki usia akil baliq. Di Jepang, menghitamkan gigi ini dinamakan beserta ohaguro. Caranya beserta melarutkan serbuk besi (iron filing) dalam cuka atau sake, lalu dioleskan dalam permukaan gigi. Supaya warna hitam ini bertahan lebih usang serta memberi kesan mengilap, maka dioleskan kulit butir delima (rind of pomegranate).Tradisi ini dijalankan berabad-abad lamanya, dalam gadis yg akan memasuki jenjang pernikahan, juga dilaksanakan dalam geisha. Baru dalam tahun 1873, gigi hitam ini dihentikan sang kaisar Jepang serta permaisuri kaisar memberi model beserta nir menghitamkan giginya serta justru memamerkan gigi yg putih bersinar mirip mutiara (pearly white).

Di negara China, tradisi menghitamkan gigi juga dijalankan dalam wanita. Secara budaya, gigi hitam dalam wanita selain melambangkan kecantikan, juga bermanfaat buat menyembunyikan ekspresi verbal sang wanita, mirip halnya penggunaan kipas atau tangan yg ditutupkan di depan bibir. Kalau kita amati, hingga sekarang pun, wanita Asia yg akan tertawa sempurna secara refleks menutupi verbal beserta tangannya. Gigi yg putih, di zaman itu, memberi kesan menyeramkan, lantaran menyerupai warna tulang, serta mengingatkan orang dalam taring anjing serta fauna buas lainnya, serta hantu dedemit (demon).

Tradisi gigi hitam ini, secara meluas juga dianut di seantero Mikronesia, Melanesia, serta Asia, mirip di Vietnam, Laos, Thailand, India, Malaya, serta juga Indonesia. Di Vietnam, dalam masa itu bahkan terdapat tembang warga (folksong) yg menggambarkan kecantikan seorang dara beserta rambut yg ikal, suara yg merdu, berlesung pipi, serta mempunyai gigi hitam mengilap laksana biji butir srikaya (custard apple). Di negeri kita, selain dihitamkan, gigi ini juga dikikir (tooth filing) menjadi pendek dalam saat memasuki usia akil baliq mirip yg masih dijalankan di Bali, Sumatera, serta Sulawesi. Ada juga yg mewarnai gigi ini beserta mengunyah sirih, sehingga seluruh gigi-geliginya merona merah. Memang terdapat penelitian ilmiah yg mengambarkan bahwa gigi hitam atau merah ini tahan (resisten) terhadap karies gigi serta juga menguatkan gusi. Ini tentunya beserta mengenyampingkan pendapat ilmiah bahwa zat-zat penghitam/pemerah gigi ini bersifat karsinogenik (mampu memicu terjadinya kanker).

Penduduk Filipina serta Vietnam telah mengambarkan bahwa menghitamkan gigi adalah senjata ampuh melawan ulat gigi yg akan menggerogoti permukaan gigi. Ada satu jenis flora perdu yg bernama Pothos Vine yg syahdan mampu menghitamkan gigi bilamana dikunyah. Kalau Pothos Vine ini nir terdapat di loka Knda, maka mampu diganti beserta mengunyah kulit butir delima mirip yg biasa dilakukan sang generasi tua di Jawa. Saya teringat waktu mini dahulu, makan hidangan cumi lengkap beserta tinta hitamnya (yg di Surabaya dinamakan beserta ikan nus). Sekujur gigi saya menjadi hitam, namun tentunya yg satu ini tak berkhasiat buat mencegah keropos gigi.

Apakah tren fashion akan merangkul ide gigi hitam berkilat menjadi lambang kecantikan akan hayati pergi di masa depan? Who knows! Pada saat mana, dokter gigi akan merangkap menjadi ahli kecantikan, bukan beserta cara memutihkan gigi (bleaching), namun justru beserta menghitamkan gigi.

Wanita, Kecantikan serta Kepribadian

Oleh : J. Haryadi

Siapa perempuan yang nir ingin tampil cantik ? Semua perempuan niscaya menginginkan penampilan yang prima sebagai akibatnya menjadi pusat perhatian poly orang. Berbagai cara dilakukan kaum perempuan supaya mereka terlihat cantik serta menarik, contohnya dengan melakukan perawatan tubuh serta menjaga asupan nutrisi yang masuk ke tubuhnya melalui makanan serta minuman yang dikonsumsinya.

Bagi kaum perempuan yang memiliki poly uang, mereka rela mengeluarkan jutaan rupiah demi memperoleh kecantikan yang diidam-idamkannya. Wanita yang memiliki warna kulit hitam akan melakukan perawatan kulit ke dokter seorang ahli supaya warna kulitnya berkembang menjadi putih. Sebagian dari mereka memakai obat-obatan dari bahan herbal yang alami, akan tetapi nir sedikit yang menggunakan bahan-bahan kimia.

Sebagian perempuan yang merasa dirinya kurang cantik, rela merogoh koceknya hingga ratusan juta demi melakukan operasi buat membarui penampilan dalam bagian-bagian tubuhnya yang dirasa kurang menarik. Bagian tubuh yang acapkali menjadi sasaran operasi umumnya ialah bagian wajah misalnya : hidung, bibir, alis mata, dagu bahkan gigi.

Kecantikan seorang perempuan sesungguhnya nir hanya terletak dalam bagian wajah, akan tetapi juga meliputi bagian tubuh lainnya misalnya payudara serta bokong. Misalnya para perempuan yang kebetulan memiliki payudara mungil, rela melakukan berbagai cara supaya payudaranya terlihat montok serta seksi. Disamping melakukan terapi, muncul juga yang melakukan jalan pintas dengan melakukan operasi pemasangan silikon (implant) ke dalam payudaranya.

Begitu juga bagi kaum perempuan yang memiliki bokong mungil serta ingin terlihat akbar, maka jalan pintas yang dilakukan ialah dengan cara operasi pemasangan silikon misalnya halnya payudara. Silikon dalam pasang dalam bagian bokong berdasarkan dengan berukuran yang diinginkan  sebagai akibatnya nantinya terlihat berisi serta mengagumkan.

Bukan hanya tubuh, kecantikan seorang perempuan juga dapat dipandang dari pakaian yang dikenakannya. Oleh karena itu kaum perempuan juga rela mengeluarkan poly uang demi memiliki pakaian yang bagus serta bermerek, sebagai akibatnya dapat memperindah penampilan fisiknya. Model pakaian harus disesuaikan dengan warna kulit serta bentuk tubuh, supaya terlihat pantas serta menarik.

Momen paling sakral buat tampil secara maksimal bagi seorang perempuan ialah dalam saat dirinya akan melakukan acara pernikahan. Mereka harus mempersiapkan diri dari jauh hari supaya kelak dapat tampil lebih cantik dari biasanya.

Merawat kecantikan sebenarnya simpel serta dapat dilakukan sendiri asal mau mempelajarinya.  Namun buat kondisi tertentu, misalnya contohnya persiapan menjelang perkawinan, maka mutlak diharapkan ahli tata rias pengantin yang siap menyulap penampilan calon pengantin menjadi lebih cantik bagaikan seorang ratu.

Menyadari betapa pentingnya para perempuan buat selalu tampil cantik, IPPRISIA (Ikatan Pengembang Kepribadian Indonesia) Provinsi Jawa Barat serta KATALIA (Asosiasi Ahli Tata Rias Pengantin modifikasi & Modern) Jawa Barat, dalam Rabu, 2 April 2014 kemarin mengadakan acara seminar kepribadian dengan tema Inner & Outer Beauty & The Great Personality. Acara ini berlangsung dalam Aula Grha Karya Wanita Bandung atau lebih dikenal dengan sebutan Gedung Wanita, yang terletak dalam Jalan LL RE Martadinata No.84 Bandung.

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Acara yang disponsori oleh Inez kosmetik ini menghadirkan nara asal Hj. R. Tatty Darwis sebagai pembicara pertama yang mengangkat topik Inner & Outer Beauty sedangkan pembicara ke 2, Muhammad Hidayat, SSI, APT, seorang motivator handal yang membawakan topik The Great personality. Kegiatan ini dilaksanakan dalam rangka memperingati Hari Kartini serta dibuka secara resmi dalam pukul 10.15 WIB oleh Atalia Ridwan Kamil, istri Walikota Bandung.

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Dalam sambutannya, Atalia menjelaskan bahwa kecantikan seorang perempuan bukan hanya dari dalam serta luar saja, melainkan juga harus dapat menyebar kemana-mana. Seorang perempuan juga harus pandai menjaga diri serta ucapannya. Kepribadian itu sangat penting dalam pergaulan, oleh karena itu perempuan juga harus pandai menjaga diri supaya terhindar dari gosip.

Saya sangat mendukung program pemberdayaan perempuan. Namun usahakan kaum perempuan harus tetap dapat menjaga kodratnya karena tujuan aktivitas perempuan diluar tempat tinggal sebenarnya ialah dalam rangka buat kebahagiaan rumahtangganya, ujar Ketua Dharma Wanita Pemkot Bandung ini menjelaskan.

Atalia menambahkan, dalam membina pergaulan, andai istilah muncul perempuan yang merasa resah karena sedang mengalami kasus, usahakan jangan berteman dengan sesama perempuan yang resah lagi, akan tetapi harus berteman dengan orang yang bermental kuat serta berpikiran positif. Kekuaatan berpikir positif dari sahabat tersebut dapat menular sebagai akibatnya perasaan resah dapat terobati sebagai akibatnya dirinya menjadi kuat dalam menghadapi kehidupan.

Pada bagian akhir sambutannya, istri Walikota Bandung ini menjelaskan, Kegiatan semacam ini dapat membawa energi baru buat perubahan serta usahakan dirancang berjenjang (muncul levelnya) serta berkesinambungan.

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Selain seminar, diadakan juga acara pagelaran pakaian pengantin Jawa Barat Modifikasi serta Lomba Rias Pengantin Muslim yang diikuti lebih kurang 70 orang peserta dari berbagai loka dalam Jawa Barat, misalnya Kota Bandung, Kabupaten Bandung, Kota Cimahi, Tasikmalaya, Indramayu, Kuningan serta Cirebon.

SEMINAR KECANTIKAN

Usai dibuka oleh Ibu Atalia Ridwan Kamil, acara dilanjutkan dengan seminar. Pada sesi pertama diisi oleh Hj. Tatty Darwis, ahli kecantikan yang juga sebagai Ketua IPPRISIA serta Ketua KATALIA Jawa Barat. Beliau memperlihatkan materi seminar dengan tema Inner & Outer Beauty.

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Menurut Hj. Tatty Darwis, intinya muncul terdapat 2 jenis kecantikan yaitu kecantikan rohani (inner beauty) serta kecantikan jasmani (outer beauty). Kecantikan rohani meliputi jiwa, perilaku mental, cara berpikir positif, bertutur istilah yang ramah, tingkah laku yang sopan serta sportif serta simpel berteman (the power of social intelligence).

Sedangkan kecantikan jasmani ialah kecantikan secara fisik, misalnya wajah yang cantik, berhidung mancung, bentuk tubuh yang tinggi semampai, berat tubuh yang proporsional, atau memiliki bentuk rambut yang mengagumkan berdasarkan dengan isu terkini. Kecantikan semakin terlihat tepat andai istilah mendapat polesan perona  mata, perona pipi serta maskara. Apalagi andai istilah dilengkapi dengan busana yang modis serta trendy.

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Inner beaty serta outer beauty andai istilah keduanya dipadukan dengan baik akan menimbulkan kecantikan menjadi tepat. Dampaknya akan poly orang yang tertarik buat menjalin persahabatan sebagai akibatnya dalam pergaulan dapat menambah agama diri.

Seminar sesi ke 2 menampilkan tema The Great Personality yang dibawakan oleh seorang motivator handal, Muhammad Hidayat, SSI, APT. Pria muda yang tampil enerjik ini begitu semangat sekali membakar peserta seminar sebagai akibatnya suasana berlangsung begitu meriah.

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Alumni Jurusan Farmasi ITB yang menjadi konsultan dalam beberapa perusahaan ini mengajak para peserta seminar supaya dapat menjadi pribadi yang luar biasa serta menyenangkan. Peserta diajak buat selalu berpikir positif serta memanfaatkan energi tersebut dengan baik. Salah satu cara supaya dapat menjadi pribadi yang humble (rendah hati) ialah dengan meninggalkan ego, mau minta maaf duluan, mau jadi pendengar yang baik serta dapat membarui pola pikir (mind set).

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DEMO RIAS WAJAH OLEH INEZ KOSMETIK

Usai seminar, para peserta disuguhi demo make up yang diperagakan oleh Inez Kosmetik. Inez ialah Produk kecantikan produksi PT. Kosmetikatama Super Indah yang didirikan dalam 1998 dalam Songosari, Malang.

Pada awal pendiriannya, produksi Inez  dibantu oleh konsultan kosmetik yaitu Ir. Norbert Haans yang telah berpengalaman lebih dari 44 tahun dalam bidang kosmetika dalam Eropa. Ada 2 jenis produk Inez yaitu :

DECORATIVE : buat tata rias wajah. Produk-produk decorative meliputi bedak tabur, bedak padat, bayangan mata, perona pipi, lipstick, serta lain-lain.

TREATMENT : buat perawatan kulit wajah juga kulit tubuh. Produk perawatan ini meliputi pembersih wajah, penyegar wajah, pelembab sabun muka, whitening, anti acne.

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PAGELARAN PENGANTIN JAWA BARAT

Setelah demo rias wajah yang diperagakan oleh Inez Kosmetik sebagai sponsor tunggal, acara selanjutnya yang berlangsung  nir kalah menarik ialah Pagelaran pengantin Jawa Barat. Para peserta tampil dengan penuh percaya diri dengan menampilkan bermacam-macam pakaian pengantin. Para contoh naik ke atas anjung serta memperagakan pakaian yang terlihat begitu mengagumkan serta mempesona.

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Para peserta pagelaran menampilkan karya terbaiknya disaksikan oleh ratusan peserta seminar serta peserta lomba make up yang memenuhi Gedung Wanita Bandung.

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LOMBA RIAS PENGANTIN MUSLIM

Acara yang paling meriah ialah lomba rias pengantin. Semua peserta diuji kemampuannya dalam memoles modelnya oleh dewan juri. Sebagian peserta terlihat gugup karena persaingan diantara peserta terlihat begitu ketat. Maisng-masing peserta mencoba mengeluarkan kemampuan terbaiknya. Suasana perlombaan sahih-sahih terasa sangat meriah serta semarak.

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PENAMPILAN PESERTA LOMBA

Hasil rias para peserta lomba wajib ditampilkan ke atas anjung oleh modelnya dengan berlenggak-lenggok bak peragawati.  Para contoh  berjalan diatas anjung serta memperlihatkan akibat rias peserta lomba kepada dewan juri. Sementara para penonton menyaksikan acara ini sembari mengabadikannya dengan jepretan kamera.

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PARA PEMENANG

Setelah terselesaikan lomba, dewan juri kemudian kedap buat menentukan para pemenangnya. Peserta yang beruntung tentu merasa gembira, akan tetapi bagi peserta yang belum mendapatkan anugerah tentu ajang lomba ini tetap berguna karena memperlihatkan pengalaman serta wawasan kepada mereka.

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Gerebek salon kecantikan, polisi pergoki pasangan mesum & kondom

Tim Eagle One Polres Jakarta Selatan melakukan penggerebekan salon kecantikan bernama Surya Refleksi, kepada wilayah Pasar Minggu, Jakarta Selatan. Salon itu digerebek petugas diduga dijadikan loka prostitusi.

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Kepala Tim Eagle One Polres Jakarta Selatan Bripka Oka Bartono mengungkapkan, penggerebekan itu diawali sumber adanya laporan sumber masyarakat. Sehingga tim melakukan penggerebekan tersebut.

"Sudah lama (dipantau sumber laporan masyarakat), baru kita tidak lanjuti kebenarannya, didapati salon dipakai buat prostitusi," ujarnya dikala dikonfirmasi, Rabu (14/tiga).

Dalam penggerebekan itu, petugas amankan 5 orang wanita yang diduga menjadi pekerja seks komersial. Hingga sekarang para pelaku digiring ke Polres Jakarta Selatan buat dimintai keterangannya.

"Kita dapatkan juga beberapa alat kontrasepsi, kondom & juga telah (pelaku) didapati buka bajunya. Ini barang bukti seluruh. Kita amankan ke Polres Jakarta Selatan," tandasnya. [rhm]

Fun Ideas To Spice Up The Bedroom How To Give A Woman The Best Pleasure

Feeling naughty tonight? Are you running out of ideas to spice up your sex life? With more erotic, exciting and fun bedroom games, you will be able to make your sex life more enjoyable and have much longer foreplay.

Many couples complain that their "honeymoons" are over; their sex lives are not longer exciting and passionate. If you are one of them, it is now time for you to take action and bring back the excitement and fun of having sex with your lover.

Learn this one technique -- simple and easy for any man to use -- and not only will sex be more pleasurable for you, but you'll instantly become a better lover than 90% of the rest of the guys on the planet. Here's how to have sex more often -- and have her thank you for it

With the right bedroom games that I am going to introduce to you, you will be able to get rid of boring sex life immediately:

1. Lusty Reading. Get a few books with steamy sex scenes in them. Now flip through one of the book until you come across a steamy sex scene. Then read it out loud to your lover, which follow by the both of you acting out the details of it. Once you are done, pass the book to your lover and choose a new scene to act out.

2. The Dirty Mind. When you are out for dinner, have your lover guess what sexual position, technique, or sexual encounter that is in your mind now. Then give your lover 2 chances to get it right. If he or she still cannot get the correct answer, you can give 2 clues to lead your lover to guess the correct answer. If at the end you lover still does not manage to get it right, then he or she has to grant you whatever sexual request you make later that night.

If your lover gets it right, then you have to grant the lusty request by him or her.

The above are just 2 very simple and common bedroom games that you can play so as to spice up your sex life. There are tons of interesting, creative and erotic games out there fore you to explore, be sure not to miss them.

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Being a man you may find it difficult to understand what the ultra rare sex secrets about a woman could be. But be assured that there are certain secrets that all women have.

The only thing is that men are not aware about these secrets and thus fail to satisfy a woman.

Romanticizing- Being a romantic person goes to your credit when it comes to adulations and appreciations. While you admire and appreciate a girl's beauty, eyes and hair you will be arousing her gradually.

She will love the tender and fond look in your eyes while you talk to her and look deep into her eyes and hold her or kiss her; the feeling is elating and she enjoys what you do.

Caressing and fondling- The way you caress and fondle a woman are important to her. Let the passion flow through your hands to tell her just how lovely she is and how much you admire her.

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Do not rush or hurry the caressing or fondling. Do it all leisurely and fondly.

Foreplay- If you really want your woman to be highly aroused foreplay is your key. You cannot hope to see her in a real mood for sex unless she is aroused.

This is the most crucial stage when you need to labor and linger over this stage and go about it in the most unhurried way possible. Take your time and introduce a lot of variation.

She will also like the little tease that you need to use as well while at the foreplay.

The highlights- The vaginal area includes the vaginal lips, the vulva, the clitoris and the g spot which is located within the vagina. No one spot can afford to be overlooked when stimulating the area.

Each of these contribute to giving her mind blowing orgasms, so stimulation of each of these at great length and alternating between the first three will be the secret you need to know.

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If you are like many men, it's probably fair to say that you want to give your woman GREAT SEX. If that's the case -- you're in the right place because in this article you are going to discover 7 quick and easy and highly effective ways to give your woman a lot MORE SEXUAL PLEASURE.

So read on now and use one or all of these tips the next time you make-love to your woman...

1. Give Her Better Oral Sex

Women love berkaitan dengan mulut sex, but only when it's really good.

A way to instantly improve the berkaitan dengan mulut sex you give your woman is to insert your middle finger into her vagina and stimulate her G-Spot at the same time as you are licking her clitoris.

This will totally drive her crazy!

2. Turn Her On By Talking Dirty

Every woman loves to hear her man's voice during sex.

Of course, during sex -- she doesn't want to talk about the news or what she's done at work that day.

No, no, no... during sex, your woman wants to hear you TALK DIRTY.

When you talk dirty you will instantly increase your woman's sexual pleasure. Guaranteed.

In fact - to give your woman really GREAT SEX, you must talk dirty. There is no other way.

tiga. Pin Her Arms Down

Here's a neat little trick to increase your woman's sexual excitement:

When you are doing her in the missionary position -- take both of her arms and gently pin them down above her head.

You don't have to be brilliant, good-looking, or well-endowed to have her think you're a sex god... you just have to be 'dumb' enough to follow these step-by-step instructions

4. Touch Her 'Other Hole'

When you are doing her from behind, use your thumb to stimulate her anus. If you do it gently and when she is very near to orgasm -- it'll feel extremely good to her.

lima. Give Her The Best Foreplay Ever

All women love foreplay but most men absolutely suck at it.

Here's how to give your woman THE BEST FOREPLAY EVER:

- Do not take your pants off until you have given her one clitoral orgasm and two G-Spot Vaginal Orgasms

Do this and you not only give her three incredible orgasms -- you also show her that you care about her SEXUAL PLEASURE and that you are not a selfish lover.

6. Use Teasing To Build Her Sexual Anticipation

Everything during sex feels better the longer the build up to it.

For example, if you slowly build your woman up to berkaitan dengan mulut sex over the course of 20 minutes -- it will feel better for her when you finally touch her clitoris than if you dived straight in after 60 seconds.

So TEASE her and let her sexual anticipation grow.

7. Give Her Vaginal Orgasms

Vaginal Orgasms are way more powerful and pleasurable for a woman than clitoral orgasms, but less than 20% of women have ever had one.

If you want to give your woman really great sex -- give her vaginal orgasms.

You can do this by stimulating her G-SPOT.

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All women enjoy berkaitan dengan mulut sex. What they don't enjoy is amateurs attempting to perform berkaitan dengan mulut sex. Studies show that most women avoid berkaitan dengan mulut sex simply because the guy has no idea what he's doing half of the time.

So how do you think it would reflect on you if you were one man out of many that knew exactly what they were doing and how exactly to make girls squirm every time? The answer is that women would literally line up around the block for you.

If you can master the simple tricks I have laid out for you, you can guarantee that every woman you get into bed will be telling stories about your prowess for ages to come and will be extremely eager to see you again for some more pillow action.

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Trick #1. Work with what you've got. Pleasing a girl orally is not an easy task; however the most important thing to remember is that you have to use what you've been given. Too many men out there use their fingers exclusively and forget about their tongues, and those that don't use their tongues and not their fingers. What you need to do is focus on using both at the same time.

You need to time when to insert your fingers for maximum effectiveness, though. While your tongue is working, for example, slip your fingers slowly inside her while still maintaining the same motions with your tongue and watch as she shivers in extreme pleasure!

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Trick #2. What's your hurry? There's no need to rush your efforts to bring her to a climax. The best thing to do if you want her to truly enjoy the sexual experience is to take your time and work at a steady pace. Once you have a good rhythm going, everything else becomes easy. Just remember, though: rhythm is key!

Trick #tiga. Change it up. As I mentioned before: rhythm is key; it forms the basis for everything that you do from then on. Once you have the basic rhythm, feel free to speed up and try new things, but always fall back to the same rhythm. This will increase her excitement as she eagerly anticipates your next lick or touch.

Trick #4. Is that all you've got? Be sure to explore the rest of her body too. While it's tempting to focus exclusively on her clitoris as the most obvious site of stimulation, she also has lots of other areas that can be exploited through the use of your groping fingers. Learning to multitask and find these places while still maintaining your attention on her clitoris is one of the signs of a true master.

Trick #lima. Sing. I'm not joking. Just as guys enjoy it when a girl hums for him, girls appreciate it when you sing for them. The vibrations from your mouth onto her clitoris works the same way as a vibrator does, except more effectively. This is also a great way to set you apart from other men out there as not many are willing to go to such lengths.

Keep all of these in mind and she will most definitely come and you will definitely be hearing from her again! With that, your place as a master of the berkaitan dengan mulut arts will be assured!

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Wanita Cerdas Sudah Pasti Cantik

Definisi anggun, perempuan dengan rambut panjang, badan tinggi langsing, kulit putih (kuntilanak kali), gunakan high heels (eh akan tetapi kuntilanak gak gunakan high heels ya) terus apalagi? Oh perempuan anggun yang sukanya hedon ke kawasan-kawasan mahal high group gitu, selalu up to date sama fashion juga make up teranyar. Sayangnya perempuan semacam ini tengah diberdaya oleh iklan-iklan di televisi, gak cuma iklan kehidupan artis juga mereka follow.

Coba lihat sejenak mana timbul contoh iklan sampo rambutnya kutuan terus berantakan, mana timbul contoh iklan kecantikan yang kategorinya biasa aja, kalaupun timbul sebuah iklan ihwal body lotion yang membuahkan modelnya berkulit gelap kemudian seketika pribadi bersinar ya itulah manipulasi media. Perempuan anggun identik dengan fisik & wajah, sehingga membangun mereka berlomba-lomba buat terus mempercantik dirinya.

Termasuk saya! Tapi, bukankah anggun itu cukup? Tergantung bagaimana cara orang memandang sebab sudut pandang orang itu tidak sinkron. Seseorang yang kita anggap anggun belum tentu dipercaya anggun juga bagi orang lain, & kebalikannya. Perempuan menganggap bahwa kecantikan artinya hal yang paling pokok yang harus dimiliki sementara kemampuan lain seperti kecerdasan misalnya artinya sebagai bonusnya.

Bagaimana bila ubah pemikiran tadi bahwa hal yang paling pokok yang harus dimiliki seluruh perempuan artinya kecerdasan & anggun? Anggap saja itu bonus. Wanita anggun belum tentu cerdas namun wanita cerdas niscaya anggun. Kecantikan yang berasal berdasarkan kecerdasannya membangun siapa yang memandangnya akan tertarik dengan ilmu yang dimilikinya.

Mengutip berdasarkan catatan So Hok Gie bahwa perempuan akan selalu di bawah laki-laki kalau yang diurusi hanya baju & kecantikan. Aika seluruh perempuan Indonesia berpikiran seperti apa yang timbul di catatan So Hok Gie apa istilah bunda kita kartini? Penggerak emansipasi wanita, supaya wanita mendapat hak buat memperoleh pendidikan setinggi-tingginya, supaya wanita diakui kecerdasannya & supaya wanita nir direndahkan derajatnya oleh laki-laki.

Oleh sebab itu, buat diriku sendiri & seluruh perempuan Indonesia sebagai calon bunda kelak, jadilah wanita yang cerdas & bunda yang cerdas akan melahirkan anak-anak yang cerdas.

Majulah! Berkaryalah!

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Feng Shui Tips on House Selection - Part dua

In my previous article, I talked about revealing the Feng shui formula for house selection. The easiest way to do such assessment would be to consider the location of the main door and the corner of a house that is short or truncated like a missing piece of jigsaw puzzle. In Feng shui terminology, we termed the latter a "missing corner". The main door is the most effective amplifier of any effects brought about by Feng shui formula because it is the most active part of the house with people passing through the main door every day or occupants opening or closing it for others reasons. For this reason, the qualitative aspect of the sector for which the door is located is usually positive. On the other hand, a missing corner indicates quality of the particular sector housing it is attenuated and usually attributed with the negative qualitative aspect of that sector. 

With the above in mind, house hunters can simply remember note the sector of which the main door and missing corner are located and assess the qualities of the house which are likely to be positive or negative. A generalized list of the qualities of each sector of the house is as follows:-

East sector's is associated with legs, liver, eldest son, anger, progress. Hence when it is negative there will be issues on the legs, liver or eldest son occupying the house. When positive, it brings about the ability to progress in life.

The Southeast sector is associated with thighs, liver, eldest daughter, academic and sexuality. When this sector is positive, it bring about good academic achievements for its occupants. When this sector shows its negativities, it brings about issues with the eldest daughter, sexuality or thighs.

The North sector is associated with kidney, ears, abyss, middle son and intellect. When it is negative, there will be issues with kidney or middle son for the occupants in the house. When it is positive, it bestows its occupants with the ability to think and analyse.

The Northeast sector is associated with the youngest son, fingers, spleen and an end. When positive, it brings an end to undesired matters or associations. When negative, the youngest son or the fingers of the occupants may get hurt.

The Southwest sector is associated with the mother, romance, stomach and gentleness. When this corner is missing, there will be issues with health of the mother or stomach problems or romances problems for the occupants. When the southwest corner houses the door, it brings about gentleness and caring nature in its occupants. 

The Northwest sector is associated with wealth, father, head and lungs. A father living in a house with missing corner in northwest sector is likely to be vulnerable. Or other occupants of this house may suffer from wealth, head and lungs problems.

The West sector represents the mouth, the youngest daughter and the young in general. For couples looking to conceive, do avoid a house with missing west corner. It can bring about the gift of the gab when positive and sah issues with slander when negative.

The South sector represents beauty, eyes and the middle daughter. If the house has its door in the south sector, its occupants will be endowed with beauty or good eyes. If a house has missing corner in the south sector, the middle daughter will suffer or is seldom at home.

I hope readers will find this series of Feng shui tips for house selection useful.

Feng Shui Tips on House Selection - Part 2

In my previous article, I talked approximately revealing the Feng shui components for residence option. The simplest approach to do such evaluate will be to just accept as honestly with the world of typically the most door and the corner of a domestic  be speedy or truncated like a missing piece of jigsaw puzzle. In Feng shui terminology, we termed the latter a "missing corner". The main door is the much effectual amplifier of any outcomes brought approximately by Feng shui components thinking of it is the much energetic a component of the residence with of us passing for the period of typically the most door day-by-day or occupants opening or last it for others functions. For this rationale, the qualitative issue of the world for which the door is situated is constantly positive. On the opposite hand, a missing corner shows nice of the detailed sector housing it is attenuated and constantly attributed with the horrible qualitative issue of that sector. 

With the above in brain, residence hunters can devoid of issue be counted note the world of which generally the most door and missing corner might also be came across out and investigate the qualities of the residence that are doubtless to be positive or horrible. A generalized list of the qualities of every single sector of the residence is as follows:-

East sector's is linked to legs, liver, eldest son, anger, enlargement. Hence whereas it is horrible there might neatly be problems at the legs, liver or eldest son occupying the residence. When positive, it brings in regards to the means to enlargement in life.

The Southeast sector is linked to thighs, liver, eldest daughter, academic and sexuality. When this sector is positive, it carry approximately first-cost academic achievements for its occupants. When this sector mentioned its negativities, it brings approximately problems with the eldest daughter, sexuality or thighs.

The North sector is linked to kidney, ears, abyss, core son and intellect. When it is horrible, there might neatly be problems with kidney or core son for the occupants in the residence. When it is positive, it bestows its occupants with the means to suppose and learn.

The Northeast sector is linked to the youngest son, fingers, spleen and an conclude. When positive, it brings an conclude to undesired issues or associations. When horrible, the youngest son or the fingers of the occupants might get hurt.

The Southwest sector is linked to the mother, romance, stomach and gentleness. When this corner is missing, there might neatly be problems with health of the mother or stomach problems or romances problems for the occupants. When the southwest corner houses the door, it brings approximately gentleness and tense nature in its occupants. 

The Northwest sector is linked to wealth, father, head and lungs. A father living in a domestic with missing corner in northwest sector is doubtless to be prone. Or other occupants of this residence might go by means of from wealth, head and lungs problems.

The West sector represents the mouth, the youngest daughter and the young in mounted. For couples taking a look to conceive, do stay away from a domestic with missing west corner. It can usher in regards to the gift of the gab whereas positive and legal problems with slander whereas horrible.

The South sector represents class, eyes and the core daughter. If the residence has its door in the south sector, its occupants might neatly be endowed with class or first-cost eyes. If a domestic has missing corner in the south sector, the core daughter will go by means of or is seldom at domestic.

I hope readers will find out this sequence of Feng shui recommend for residence option victorious.